The D/s Contract

So, Madam P signed a contract a month or 2 ago.  At first we signed the contract for a week, then renewed it for 2 weeks, then 4 weeks.  Our plan is to keep doubling the time frame until we reach a point at which it just feels comfortable to regularly come back to our contract, to make changes, to renew the agreement to each other, and to take pause and evaluate whether this arrangement stills works for us.

 

The following is the text of our contract in it’s current incarnation:

 

D/s Contract

I, _______slave missy______, with a free mind and an open heart; do request of
_______Madam P_________ that She accept the submission of my will unto Her and to take me into Her care and guidance, that we may grow together in love, trust and mutual respect. The satisfaction of Her wants, desires, and whims are consistent with my desire as a submissive to be found pleasing to Her. To that end, I offer her use of my time, talents, and abilities. Further, I ask, in sincere humility, that, as my Madam, She accept the keeping of my body for the fulfillment and enhancement of our sexual, spiritual, emotional, and intellectual needs. To achieve this, She may have unfettered use of my body any time, any place, in front of anyone; to keep or to give away, as She will determine.

I ask that She guide me in any sexual, sensual, or scene-related behavior, both together with, and separate from Her, in such a way as to further my growth as a person.

I request of ____Madam P____________, as my Madam, that She use the power vested in Her role; to mold and shape me; assisting me to grow in strength, character, confidence, and being, and that She continue to help me to develop my artistic and intellectual abilities.

In return:

I agree to obey Madam’s commands to the best of my ability.

I agree to strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and all inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve Madam and limit my growth as Her submissive.

I agree to maintain honest and open communication, including but not limited to answering direct questions with direct answers.

I agree to reveal my thoughts, feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment, especially if I’m inclined to withhold those thoughts and feelings in order to get things my way.

I agree to inform Madam of wants and perceived needs, recognizing that She is the sole judge of what it is that I need or how these desires shall be satisfied.

I agree to strive toward maintenance of a positive self-image and development of realistic expectations and goals as defined and set forth for me by Madam.

I agree to work with Madam to become a happy and self-fulfilled individual that she can be proud of.

I agree to work against negative aspects of my ego and my insecurities that would interfere with Madam’s ideal vision of training me into perfect servitude for her sole pleasure and amusement.

My surrender as a submissive is done with the knowledge that nothing asked of me will demean me as a person, and will in no way diminish my own responsibilities toward making utmost use of my potential.

This I, ________slave missy____, do entreat, with lucidity and the realization of what this means, both stated and implied, in the conviction that this offer will be understood in the spirit of faith, caring, esteem and devotion in which it is given.

Should either of us find that our aspirations are not being well served by this agreement, find this commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish to cancel, either may do so by verbal notification to the other, in keeping with the consensual nature of this agreement.  We both understand that cancellation means a cessation of the control stated and implied within this agreement, not a termination of our relationship as friends, lovers and life partners.  Upon cancellation, each of us agrees to offer to the other her reasons and to assess our new needs and situation openly and lovingly.

This agreement shall serve as the basis for an extension of our relationship, committed to in the spirit of loving and consensual dominance and submission with the intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration, promoting health and happiness, and improving both our lives.

I offer my consent to submission to ________Madam P_______________ under he terms stated above on this the ____XX__ day of __XXXXXXXX___ in the year 20XX_, the terms of which shall end on the __XX____ day of ___XXXXXXXX__ in the year 20XX_.

 

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Signature of Submissive

I offer my acceptance of submission by ______slave missy____________ under these terms stated above on this the ___XX___ day of __XXXXXXXX___ in the year 20XX_.

 

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Signature of Dominant

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